Travel Intense

We are planners. So this is our first attempt at
deconstructing our organization-intense travel modus operandi. And where else on
earth would you find a destination more décontractée than the southern
Caribbean?
We'll start there. Could this be
our undoing?

Followers

Friday, January 15, 2010

THE TENTH LESSON

The last few days have been taking time to DO NOTHING! It's so foreign to us. But so has this whole trip...and not just because we've been in other countries. It's a completely different way of looking at travel. Can you really just not plan something and have it work out? That happens to other people but not to us. Or so we thought.

A final test came today when I rented our car for the return trip tomorrow. Two hours prior to pickup! In fact, pickup isn't even the word for it. They actually drop rental cars off to your hotel here. Budget had no cars left, but EZ (ever heard of that one?) actually did, and literally in the final hour, we booked it. Good thing. We drove all over creation - on the left hand side of the road, adding new meaning to the word "trip" - just looking for a place to have a last dinner. And tomorrow it will have been a good value to rent even for just the day since taxi to the airport 1 1/2 hours away would run just as high and give us no flexibility to explore.

Today, we took a water taxi up to the cruise boat you see down the page and over to Pidgeon Island a place of strategic significance for the British navy in the 1700's. It was a climb to the outlook, but gave us a 360 degree view of the bay and all the way to Martinique. We stopped and had a cold one (which tasted really good about then) and then Debra and I went on one last warm-water binge: we bobbed in the ocean, went to the pool with the overhead jets, and then soaked in the spa overlooking the harbor inlet before going back to the condo to jump in the plunge pool to take it the sunset you see above. No one will ever feel sorry for us again!

Tomorrow, we plan to visit a plantation, an 18th century hot springs, and have lunch overlooking the Piton mountains that jut straight out of the sea (see http://www.ladera.com/). Then on to the airport for flight back home. We learned our lesson. Travel without intensity was not our undoing, after all. Now it's time to fly...and park.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

NEGOTIATING A ROOM UPGRADE: POUTING VS. PATIENCE

The Dean's left yesterday morning a final family photo to commemorate the first "surprise" ParkFest. Updates on any good kite-flying weather in Bequia will be immensely appreciated (their next stop). Beware the lesson I now learn is long one.

LESSON NINE: Don't worry about booking in advance. The room you want is still available if you can tolerate the uncertainty. That's the hardest part.

After one last dip in the Marigot Bay pool, the shuttle from The Landings came and got us and took us to Rodney Bay (Who are these people who get tropical bays named after them?!). The check-in resulted in a tip for travelers everywhere. I booked the room just a day before arrival - remember we are trying NOT to plan - and was repeatedly told there are no beach view rooms available. Well, harborview did not sound dismal, so, as my other three companions will tell you, I reluctantly reserved...but not before requesting a room in a quiet location. The blogs (ya gotta love 'em) all said the only downside at this resort was ongoing construction of Phase III of their waterfront development.

The room was beautifully appointed, a complete condo. And the harbor is very, um, pretty, as you can see. But look carefully in the distance and you'll see condo construction in the background. The view of famous Pidgeon Island, home of the St. Lucia Jazz Festival and a historic monument, is obstructed by shells of more condos under construction. They could be overlooked, but the undeniable fact is that we are in the Caribbean and we could be just about anywhere with a palm tree. Still not bad, but I was nagged with the question, "Could this be better?" Since we had checked in around 1:30 p.m., there was still time to find out without losing prime beach time.

Here's what you do. Go back to the front desk. Always find the person with the most attentive expression. This is best seen in the eyes. Get their name and use it. Comment on the loveliness of the property and then reverse course.
"Kent, good afternoon. The Landings is just about the most beautiful place we have ever stayed and the room is absolutely gorgeous. But there is something that is very disappointing."
Always say "disappointing". Not "outrageous" or "infuriating", save "disturbing" for emergencies. No, "disappointing" is perfect.
"We had been told we had reserved a quiet room."
"What seems to be the problem?", Kent asks, concerned.
"Well, there's constuction in the distance, but the real disapointment is the backhoe running constantly in the vacant lot behind us. We'd like to see about upgrading to a beachview room. Can you see what's available?"
He checks. I've been relaxing, but also doing my research. The difference in price is huge. Kent, however, seems pleased.
"We do have two two-bedroom suites on the beach for an additional upcharge." I wonder, but not out loud, how they could suddenly have rooms that weren't available yesterday. But the additional cost while more attractive than advertised online, is still out of the question.
"May I see them before I commit to a change?"
"Of course." Kent arranges for a bellhop to accompany me. But, before we hop in the cart, I take Kent aside.
"I'm operating on a budget and I'd like to try to swing this. (And this is the critical phrasing) Could you ASK YOUR MANAGER if you can do any better on the price?" He assures me he will. What hurt will it do to get him to ask? If ask Kent, he'll have to say no. It's the "best available rate". But the manager. Well, managers don't want disappointed guests.
I settle on the room you see above, the one we eventually move to around 4:30 p.m. When I come back to confirm the change with Kent, I am fully prepared to stay in the original room and be happy, although somewhat "disappointed." Kent greets me cheerfully,
"The manager would like to offer you the upgrade for half the previous price." Secretly, I was hoping for a free upgrade, of course. But this offer is still too good to pass up...steps to the beach, waves lapping outside the balcony rather than heavy equipment operating, and a view of the sea all the way to the city lights. Even the furniture looks better. We'll take it.

And while we wait to be transferred I join Debra, toes in the sand, where she's been quietly reading her novel the whole time.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

C'MON, BE A FOLLOWER!

Hey, everybody! A big thank you to Jessica and Kelly for responding on the blog. Under each entry is a section for comments. Still, I have no followers, yet. It's just so I can see your reactions and make this a two-way conversation...I promise I won't invite you to Jonestown and make you drink grape Kool-Aid.

JEHOVAH AND JALOUSIE BEACH

This trip comes at nearly the time of our 20th anniversary (March 3 is about six weeks away), so in many ways this trip is a celebration. One of the most stunning visual memories of 1990 was the marine reserve at San Pedro, Ambergris Caye, Belize where we snorkeled for the first time as newlyweds. It is a testament to the beauty of creation to observe such unparalleled design in nature.

Well, we did it again. In St. Lucia, snorkeling at the base of the Piton mountains at Jalousie beach we had a stunning, humbling underwater foray. There were schools of iridescent squid, which Dad points out can instantly propel either forward or back. A large faux "eye" wards off predators. How in the world would that have just "appeared"? A mauve fish laced with intricate hatchmarks is detailed in iridescent peacock blue along its outer edges including the tips of its tail and over both eyes, refracting light like crystals. Tube coral that change color from orange to lavender. Schools of dark violet fish, and long needle-nosed ones in various sizes and every color. Mom, Debra and I were both slightly stung by the tentacles of jellyfish, a very brief reminder that we are privileged visitors, but only visitors. It's a world that we were perhaps never naturally meant to see, but a sensory feast was awaiting anyone who would venture to try. It's a world that does not belong to us, but one we are allowed to borrow as long as we understand our responsibility for its well-being. A divine stewardship.

LESSON NINE: The more we learn about what Jehovah has skillfully crafted, the more accountable we feel to him for the care of our fellow earthly creatures. Taking the time to observe them, study them, and learn from them, enhances our respect for their Creator. And the more we actually think about the meaning of the incredible diversity in the living organisms around us, the more love we develop...for them, for each other, and for God who made us all.

Today, two J's have taught us that. Jehovah...and Jalousie beach.

Monday, January 11, 2010

BLOG VACATION

Hey, sorry about taking a couple days off! My brother and his wife Sarah have two kids, Cyrus and Tessa and we've all been keeping each other pretty busy. They left on vacation mid-December before we'd even conceived of joining them along with my parents in St. Lucia. So we decided to make it a surprise. I think it worked. They met Mom and Dad for drinks at a casual bayfront restaurant on Marigot Bay and that's when they found out we were joining them for the St. Lucia segment of their trip. It has become something of a family tradition to meet up somewhere in the world...at a restaurant. Their's always a view involved, and usually pizza!

Since we arrived Saturday, we have dined outside for almost every meal. We've splashed in the pool, by the beach, and in the open sea. Debra had a "blast" on the mini-sailboat and says taking a sail was "worth the whole trip". We had fun with neon rings and night swims, rum punch, and driving on the lefthand side of the road (not all simultaneously, of course). All Caribbean with a British infrastructure and French names. The megayachts moored in the harbor our hotel overlooks (where the old Dr. Doolittle was filmed) are floating bastions of excess. Each one is staffed with multiple servants, have complete bars, glass walls that slide away automatically to open living rooms up to the decks, and are four stories high.

It's been nice to see my family. They are all very smart, kind, and loving. The hard part has been being so far from friends and family that have been having trouble because of the harsh winter weather. We get sketchy reports about 10 year lows that only now seem to be easing up a bit. There's been breakdowns in our furnace and pipes have burst while we've been away. So that never feels good. It's the one downside of going away.

LESSON EIGHT: You can't escape reality just because you escape. Travel electrifies you. Responsibility grounds you. No matter how spontaneous you are, you can't just disconnect.

Friday, January 8, 2010

TWO DAYS FOR ONE

Our last full day in Grenada we spent revisiting lots of the week's highlights. Debra and I each got to actually make a return visit to people we had previously had stimulating Bible conversations with. We have managed to purchase a few souvenirs, including four home-made kites to take to share with my young niece and nephew when we get to St. Lucia. They were crafted by a man who uses a power wheelchair following a childhood bicycle accident.

The highlight today was a barbeque at the home of Joann and Craig Clark. A young newlywed couple, he's Bermudan and she's Haitian. Very warm and hospitable and we were honored to be a part of a missionary gathering, some graduates of Gilead, others of the MTS program who later married. A hopefully mutually upbuilding interchange and a lot of laughing going on as we exchanged tips, experiences, and insights on topics from Gilead, to the foreign field ministry, to living collectively in missionary homes. Making new friends was the perfect way to keep our mind off the inevitable: leaving Grenada tomorrow.

We'll be in transit tomorrow, en route to St. Lucia, where we hope to carry off the surprise when we see my brother and his family who don't yet know we'll be there. So bear with us, we'll be back on-line Sunday. See you there!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

LIMING

This is the first day in a week we actually had to meet a deadline. Yes. I hate to admit it, but we worked. Missionaries these days are totally wired (electronically) or at least so it seems after our visits to the Waddells in Costa Rica and now the Eszlingers. This enables complete connectivity. A blessing...and a curse.

This morning, Alexandra makes us a complete Farmer's Breakfast which wipes out our appetite for the rest of the day. Then, while Debra makes cinnamon rolls for tomorrow's breakfast (what else on the Spice Island, right?), I get the ad worked up and sent off to Eileen for a publication deadline.

After lounging by a pool reading for the rest of the afternoon, it was time for the meeting. Alexandra gave a talk and Ricky read the material for the Bible study. We had copied all the articles from the publications for the meeting and we covered the same information this week that we would have studied with our congregation at home, just like it is in every congregation in every corner of the world. A refreshing end in the quest for an unstructured but spiritual vacation.

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

NEOSHO & GRENADA: THE PARALLELS

Now, we're beginning to see the real underbelly of Grenada, the rare glimpse you only get with the personal contact of the door-to-door ministry. This was the brave work Jesus did when on earth. However, when he said to pray, "Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven", you have to wonder if Grenada isn't getting a headstart. A beautiful landscape awaits at every turn, the slopes awash in bougainvillea, snow-on-the-mountain, hibiscus, and mango, banana and poui trees.

On the other hand, the devastating effects of nature can also be seen throughout the island as reminders of 2004's hurricane Ivan, still fresh in the minds of all Grenadians. The trees bent and stripped of their foliage in places remind us of the aftereffects of our ice storm not too long ago in Neosho. But it's the houses that stand as a testiment to the destruction; they don't just grow back. Many roofless residences still lay vacant, others are being rebuilt in slow motion. Again, a lot like, say, McDonald County.

The humidity is dispelled by an occasional breeze, and you begin to understand that although the missionaries here are teased about "getting a real job", it is still hard work. Believe me, there are no accessible apartments in these parts. Everything is built on a 45 degree slope, it seems. So there is heat and climbing. But the fact that most people dearly love the Bible makes the day go by fast; everybody listens, asks questions, acknowledges a spiritual need and makes you feel welcome to return. So we will. Friday, to be exact.

LESSON SEVEN: Tropical isn't synonymous with lazy. These people work, missionaries included. We find, however, that participating in this work does not violate our effort to rediscover our inner couch potato. It's still easier than walking all morning in 15 below windchill, as we would be doing in the ministry back home this very minute. Or not.

SINGING THE BLUES

We're not exactly laying around the beach here in Grenada. We dress with dignity today as many in this former British colony do...including school children who are in skirts and ties. We visit a few of the Grenadians who study the Bible with the Eszlingers. One man who identifies himself as John B. looks to be around 70 years old and stopped attending the Catholic church not long ago when the priest said he didn't like the current prime minister or, for that matter, George Bush. He said he didn't think we should preach hate. I have a feeling the priest wasn't the only one who felt that way about Bush, but I stayed neutral on that one.

We kept heading north in the small SUV along a jagged and sparsely populated coastline until we got to Sauters, the location where centuries ago the Carib Indians made a last stand against the French and then, when faced with almost certain capture and slavery, chose to jump from the cliff to their deaths en masse. A very sad but proud memorial stands in their honor. The elementary school right next door resonated with children laughing and playing on recess, an incongruous backdrop to the poignant setting. It was here that we met by pure chance another traveler named Louise Shawe, a British woman with Grenadian parents who noticed the tract in Rick's pocket. She said, "I think we know each other, don't we?" (we didn't). But she was referring to the fact that she shared our faith. She and her husband are Jehovah's Witnesses in London and she was here on a break from handling some business matters for her mother who owns property on the island. We became instant friends.

We joined forces and went all together to a gourmet meal at Belmont Estate, a nearby cacao plantation on 400 acres purchased 64 years ago for 35,000 British pounds. More good food. And we toured another venerable production facility down the road as well: The River Antoine Rum Distillery with a sugarcane press dating back to the colonial era still operating in exactly the same way it has for the last 200 years. It wouldn't pass FDA inspection, but then does any bacteria survive in a liquid that's 140 proof?

And why are we "singing the blues"? We discovered a snazzy little upstairs blues club on Young St. in downtown St. George's yesterday, met the very lighthearted, welcoming (and did I say French) lady club owner...and she convinced us to make reservations to hear Jennie J. sing tonight. The whole thing was incredibly cool. A smokin' saxophone player, and an even more on-fire guy on blues harmonica and did they JAM! A smoke-free intimate venue, only about 60 people, and we sipped white wine and watermelon smoothies and noshed on Baba Ganoush to the tune of Dave Brubeck's Take Five, Muddy Waters, and Billie Holiday. Holiday? How appropriate.

LESSON SIX: Without plans, you take more chances. You poke your head in more cracked doors, explore more side alleys. And (surprise!) you're available when there's a spontanous opportunity. Try it!

Monday, January 4, 2010

SIGHTSEEING IN ST. GEORGE'S

St. George's is considered the "prettiest harbor in the West Indies" and we experienced it firsthand today: A lively spice market where we bought fresh nutmeg, cloves, cinnamon, peppercorns, and basil; treacherously steep and narrow streets filled with colonial Caribbean buildings in various states of decay; a waterfront bay lined with colorful storefronts and beautifully restored old government buildings. But the crown overlooking it all is Fort St. George.
It was built in the 1700's with cannons like the one you see here, now aimed at the gigantic cruise ships docked at the promenade far below. Strange to have 1983 described in historic terms when Marxist rebels who attempted a government takeover were executed in the courtyard now serving as a basketball court for the troops. The guide proudly pointed out machine gun bullet holes in the old stone walls...and in the metal posts of the basketball hoop. It is still a military base and houses the tailors and cobblers that make the uniforms and other clothing for the army and high government officials.
We ate our first Caribbean meal at Creole Shack which was another learning experience...and much less gruesome.

LESSON FIVE: We are learning to let go in many ways. Food choices, for example. Be adventurous when it comes to the local juices. The varieties are endless! I had golden apple today which tastes like, well, green wood with sugar. Sour orange is different and there's sorrel, starfruit, and many others. Were collecting new flavors in our brain! We have now tried callaloo soup (looks like spinach), dasheen (boiled taro root), and banana salad (which is a lot like potato salad), all for the first time. There is much more to come.

We spent the remainder of the day at Le Phare Bleu, a yacht club with a small lap pool where, for the price of a rum punch, we could hang out for the day and watch the sun set behind bobbing sailboats moored at the marina. Perhaps one of them is in our future.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

WASTING OUR TIME

How serendipidous that we should be in attendance at the Perdmontemps congregation this morning, named for the "waste my time" neighborhood of the same name where the Kingdom Hall is situated. Appropriately, I selected A New Song to open, more for the theme than what the chairman called the "historic date": Singing the first song from our newly published songbook. The brothers and sisters were very vivacious and outgoing, very, well, Caribbean. It's a Sunday morning culture. Worship is part of the landscape.

LESSON FOUR: Go where the people are laid-back. As the talk started, the audience was sparsely scattered around the auditorium. By the end, the attendance was 119...not bad for a congregation of 70. The phenomenon of an audience doubling between the beginning and end of a public discourse simply meant a mini-review of introductory material. In a world of "liming" (Grenadaspeak for "chilling"), it's up to the uptight to adapt accordingly.

After accompanying Ricky on a Bible study (Ian Fleming was his name, but he didn't author the James Bond novels), all four of us left for a late afternoon excursion to Grand Anse beach, which you see at the right from a hilltop overlook. Everything in Grenada has a hilltop overlook. As one author put it, "Grenada is short on bad views." With our requisite neon "noodles" from Wal-Mart, we plunge in! We always travel with flotation devices that we can subsequently leave behind to make room for souvenirs. That way, we can "swim" without going to any actual effort. Look, we're not here to multitask, right? So let's not try to cram a workout into soaking up the sun and surf...

Saturday, January 2, 2010

GRENADA EXPLOSION

Not only did I leave my cell phone home, but I apparently left our alarm clock there, too. How very "relaxed" of us. But we still do actually have to meet a plane this morning. The Hairs helped us find the low tech transportation the St. Lucians use, controlling the urge to go with the efficient (and more expensive) private taxi. I can't say we were entirely comfortable with it. The van was fine, it's the decision to go with the unpredictable routing and timetable that's hard.

THIRD LESSON: It will be okay. We stopped at every hairpin turn, rotating through a fascinating variety of passengers from 7-year-olds to Rastafarians, all to the blaring syncopations of Caribbean hip-hop. Yet, amazingly, we made it to the airport on the opposite side of the island with 45 minutes to spare. There's a bizarre charm to losing track of time.
We were intent on making a big splash the minute we arrived in Grenada. Ricky and Alexandra, missionaries near St. George, had our day completely planned...so we didn't have to! This whole movement toward unplugged travel is working for us! We went immediately, as chance would have it, to the very waterfall that you saw in the stock photo I uploaded a few days ago. And made a whole bunch of Grenadian friends in the process.

Dinner the Eszlingers home was complete with homemade New York cheesecake garnished with freshly grated nutmeg from - where else? - the Spice Island!

NEXT: GIVING THE SUNDAY PUBLIC TALK

Friday, January 1, 2010

"BON-JOU"!

SIXTEEN DEGREES on New Year's morning at 4:00 a.m., my brain just about froze to my skull walking across the airport parking lot. But when we arrive to a slightly humid, balmy island breeze in St. Lucia, we are joyful. Like pregnancy, the pain is forgotten, let's get on with this baby!

Our new friends, Jodie and Leonard, are missionaries originally from South Carolina, but have lived in Vieux Fort for 19 years. In exchange for 4 1/2 lbs. of grits, they've taken us on a sight-seeing tour of their very laid-back, lush and hilly town and welcomed us into their home with southern hospitality (only really, really far south, now).

SECOND LESSON: How to Speak Creole. "Hello." (See above). "How's it going?" ("Sa-ca-fet!") "I'm fine." ("Mwen Byen."...lit. "I'm there.")

NEXT: VERY EARLY FLIGHT TO GRENADA